Family law guide
Part of: Preparing for a Cafcass Interview
Family Assistance Orders under section 16 of the Children Act 1989 are short term orders which allow the court to make an order requiring a Cafcass officer or a local authority officer to advise, assist and befriend any person named in the order. The purpose of family assistance orders is to provide additional social care support to families who experience difficulties and are aimed to help the family. Family assistance orders allow for facilitating and monitoring contact.
Family assistance orders are usually made in private children law cases where there has already been a dispute about living and contact arrangements. They sit somewhere between ordinary contact disputes and public‑law involvement: the court has not gone as far as a full care order, but it accepts that Cafcass or the local authority must stay involved to establish, improve and monitor contact ordered by the court
Family assistance orders are only made when the judge considers it appropriate to make such an order. Family orders cannot be applied by anyone as a freestanding order such as for child custody or child arrangements. However, it may be possible to ask the court to consider making family assistance orders when another order is applied for such as a Contact Enforcement order or a Child Arrangements order.
Quite often family assistance orders are either proposed by the court or the Cafcass officer involved in the case. In order for family orders to be made the consent of every person named in the order must be taken, except the consent of the child. A local authority must also consent to the order if they are providing the appropriate officer except where the child lives within their area.
Under the Children Act 1989 the following people may be named on family assistance orders:
Family assistance orders can last for up to twelve months. However, the court must define the length of family orders. As such the courts are able to make family orders for a shorter defined period.
Cafcass guidance suggests that the following issues should be considered when deciding on whether a family assistance order is suitable for a case:
If the family assistance order has not been recommended by Cafcass or the local authority and they do not believe that family orders will be necessary or purposeful in the matter than they can challenge the court.
Most commonly, family assistance orders are made where it is difficult for the family to deal with issues regarding child contact without the help of Cafcass or the local authority. The aim of the family assistance orders is to promote arrangements for parents relating to child access where these are in dispute. Family assistance orders are used as a tool to promote the child’s relationship with their parents, or other members of the family from whom the child may have otherwise become alienated.
Family assistance orders are often considered in “stuck” cases where there is a long history of arguments, court applications and children refusing or resisting contact. In some matters there may be features of parental alienation and alienating behaviours, or even patterns of narcissistic parental alienation, but the court still believes the relationship can be repaired with the right support.
In these situations, a family assistance order can give Cafcass or children’s services a clear mandate to work with both parents and the child over a limited period, rather than simply changing contact on paper. The professional involved can help reduce hostile exchanges, coach parents on communication and gradually reintroduce contact in a safe, child‑focused way.
A family assistance order is different from a no contact order or a simple child arrangements order. With a no contact order, the court stops contact altogether because it believes it is unsafe or not in the child’s best interests, whereas a family assistance order assumes contact should continue or develop but needs professional support to succeed.
Family assistance orders also sit alongside the court’s powers to enforce or vary child contact orders. In some cases the judge may combine a variation of the existing arrangements with a time‑limited family assistance order, allowing the court to test whether the new plan works in practice before deciding if stronger measures – such as supervision, a change of residence, or restricting contact – are necessary.
Some families reach the family court after a period of social services involvement or a formal social services investigation. In those cases, the judge may use a family assistance order to ensure that the local authority’s child protection work and the private law contact arrangements are joined up, rather than running in isolation.
A family assistance order can be used as a “step‑down” option where the court does not consider a full care order or supervision order necessary, but wants children’s services to stay lightly involved. The social worker or family support worker can then monitor how contact is working, help parents access support such as parenting programmes, and report back if risks increase.
Whilst family assistance orders are required to assist, advise and promote child contact they do not transfer parental responsibility to either Cafcass or the local authority. With family assistance orders the parental responsibility remains with the parents or anyone named in the child arrangements order.
Before making family assistance orders the courts will need to consult either a Cafcass officer or a local authority children’s services officer. Prior to making family assistance orders the courts need to be advised by the officer on whether an order would be in the best interests of the child. The officer will also need to advise the court on how the order might operate and the ideal duration for the order.
A Cafcass officer will help set goals which need to be achieved during the duration of the family assistance order. The Cafcass officer will be responsible for reviewing the progress of the matter during the family assistance orders and see whether the goals are being met. The goals can be revised or added to as necessary by the Cafcass officer. A case plan should be prepared which sets out the nature of the interventions to be carried out by Cafcass and other agencies and should include the frequency, duration and locations where the interventions should take place.
If any new concerns arise during the family assistance order which indicates that a child is at risk of harm, then the Cafcass officer must bring this to the attention of the case manager immediately.
The case manager at Cafcass should ensure that the child and everyone named in the family assistance order is aware of the exact terms, what work the court wants to take place under the order and the steps the court wants the case manager to take. Cafcass will also liaise with any other professionals who are involved in proceedings such as the police or health workers. The Cafcass officer should also make sure that everyone named in the order is clear about the circumstances which may cause the case to be referred back to the court.
At the conclusion of the family assistance order the Cafcass officer should arrange a final review with the family involved to review what has been achieved and what should be reported back to the court. The Cafcass officer will also consider what ongoing needs remain and how these might be best met.
Similarly, to Cafcass the court may require a local authority to make an officer of the authority available to assist parents. If the local authority is required to provide an officer it will usually be from the children’s services. The children’s services officer will be giving short term help to parents or partners to cope with immediate problems from their separation or divorce. The aim of a family assistance order is to smooth the transition for the parents and their children and to promote arrangements for access where these are in dispute. The children’s services will try and facilitate co-operation between the parents in the future.
If a family assistance order is made in respect of a child and the order is to be in force at the same time as a contact order, the children’s services officer may be directed by the court to give advice and assistance as regards to establishing, improving and maintaining the contact. Through family assistance orders the court can compel a local authority to provide supervised contact.
The children’s services will work together with the family and will provide targets and how these will be measured. The children’s services may also specify what will happen in the event of things not going to plan. The local authority and children’s services may also specify referrals and or attendance for specific interventions which may be appropriate to the case.
Regardless of the matter being allocated to either Cafcass or the local authority their involvement will be similar with the ultimate aim of assisting families during separation and divorce to ensure child contact is promoted and maintained.
Family assistance orders are usually ordered where either the court or Cafcass feel that a child may suffer from contact issues following the separation or divorce of the parents. This is usually when there is quite a significant dispute amongst the parents.
Family assistance orders can be avoided if parents can illustrate to the court that they are willing to try and ensure their differences do not prevent either parent on not maintaining contact with the child. Quite often family lawyers can assist you in attempting to reconcile any differences and mediate with the other parent. Furthermore, we can assist with mediation where communication between the parents may not be an option.
Through careful legal advice family assistance orders can be avoided. Parents are reminded that in family law, the welfare of a child is most important factor. If parents are able to set aside their personal differences and focus on the needs and welfare of their children then there may not be a need for family assistance orders.
At Kabir Family Law, our family specialists can attempt to reconcile differences and disputes following a separation or divorce.
Cafcass guidance provides that there should be a case plan which should be shown to the family which sets out a series of goals, regular reviews and a final review to identify what should be reported to the court. The court is able to detail the works to be covered and the content of the reports. Situations in which the making of family assistance orders have been useful are:
The above examples illustrate how family assistance orders can be used to meet the needs of particular cases. The courts have noted that having a person with the required knowledge and skills and a person in authority who keeps watchful eye over things can ease transitions between parents.
Our family lawyers in Fulham as well as nationally across York, Oxford, Northampton and Newcastle specialise in all aspects of child law matter and can provide you with all the advice you need on family assistance orders and how these can be used in your particular case by the family court. Contact us today on 0330 094 5880 to discuss your options or let us call you back. You can otherwise book a time that suits you.
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