Family law guide
Before the first court hearing in a child arrangements case, Cafcass carries out safeguarding checks with the police and the local authority and, in most cases, holds a telephone interview, often called the Cafcass safeguarding call, with each parent separately. Only the people who are parties to the case are interviewed, and Cafcass does not speak to children at this stage. What you say goes into a short safeguarding letter that reaches the court before the first hearing. This guide explains the Cafcass telephone interview questions to be ready for, what happens on the call and how to prepare. In Wales the same work is done by Cafcass Cymru.
When a court receives a private law application about a child, it notifies Cafcass and sends a copy of the application form and supporting documents. Before the first hearing, Cafcass then:
Calls can take place close to the hearing date, so do not worry if you do not hear from Cafcass straight after the welcome letter (Cafcass). For the wider picture of what Cafcass does, see our guide to the role of Cafcass.
Cafcass’s own guidance says it talks to you and your child’s other parent or carer, but it does not publish a fixed order. Being called first or second does not change what the call is for, and it does not mean one parent is favoured. What matters is that you are ready when your call comes.
Cafcass carries out safeguarding checks with the police and the local authority to find out whether there are any concerns about the welfare or safety of your child or other children (Cafcass). If something comes up in those checks, you may be asked about it on the call. If a check is not available in time, the court can ask Cafcass to update its safeguarding letter later.
The purpose of the call is to find out whether you have concerns about your child’s welfare or safety. Cafcass will already have the application and any supporting documents, including any form C1A about harm. It helps to have thought through these topics before the call.
| Topic | Why it matters | How to prepare |
|---|---|---|
| Any worries about your child’s safety or welfare | This is the main purpose of the call | List specific concerns with dates, what happened and who saw it; say if there are police or social services records |
| Any worries the other party has raised about you | Cafcass reports the issues both parties raise | Read the application or response carefully; answer calmly, factually and honestly |
| Your child’s current routine and arrangements | It gives context to the concerns | Note where your child lives, school, when they see each parent and anything that has recently changed |
| What you are asking the court for | The first hearing looks at whether an agreement can be reached safely | Be clear about the arrangement you think is best for your child, and why |
| Anything affecting safety, such as domestic abuse, drugs or alcohol | These are safeguarding issues Cafcass and the court will look at | Be honest; if you have made changes or used support, say so |
| Do | Don’t |
|---|---|
| Keep the focus on your child: what they need and how you meet those needs | Spend the call on grievances about the relationship |
| Give specific concerns with dates, what happened and who saw it | Exaggerate: it can undermine the concerns that matter |
| Raise genuine safety concerns clearly and calmly | Attack the other parent |
| Explain anything the police or local authority checks may show, and what has changed | Hide things the checks may reveal |
| Take the call somewhere quiet and private, with your notes in front of you | Take it somewhere you can be overheard or interrupted |
| Send a statement from someone not named in the application to the court, if you want the court to see it | Send extra statements to Cafcass (Cafcass) |
Deciding which worries are safeguarding concerns, and how to raise them without sounding like an attack on the other parent, is where most parents find a second view helps.
Cafcass sends the safeguarding letter to the court within 17 working days of receiving the application, and at least 3 working days before the hearing (PD12B, para 13.7). The first hearing should ordinarily take place in week 5 after the application is issued, and at the latest in week 6 (para 14.1). A Cafcass Family Court Adviser will be available at that hearing; if your telephone interview did not happen beforehand, they will discuss any outstanding safeguarding issues with you there (Cafcass). Our guide to the FHDRA hearing explains what happens on the day.
Practice Direction 12B describes what the letter reports:
In some court areas the usual Child Arrangements Programme is suspended and replaced with a different process under the Pathfinder pilot, which started in Dorset and North Wales and has since spread to more areas, including all of Wales, Birmingham, West Yorkshire, the West Midlands, and Hampshire and the Isle of Wight (GOV.UK). See our guide to Pathfinder courts.
If the case does not settle, the court can ask Cafcass, Cafcass Cymru or the local authority to report on your child’s welfare (s.7(1)). This involves longer work than the safeguarding call. The Family Court Adviser will usually write to your child, talk to your child alone (sometimes at school), spend time with you and the other party, and may speak to other people; with a baby or young child, they observe the child with a parent or carer (Cafcass). Our guides to the section 7 report and the Cafcass home visit go into that stage.
A Cafcass report is advice to the court, and the court may take account of what it says (s.7(4)). The decision is the judge’s, made with the child’s welfare as the paramount consideration and, where the application is opposed, with regard to the welfare checklist, including the child’s wishes and feelings in the light of their age and understanding (s.1(1) and (3)). If you think a report is wrong, see our guide to disagreeing with Cafcass.
No. The Children Act 1989 does not give mothers or fathers priority, and the court’s paramount consideration is the child’s welfare (s.1(1)). When the court considers an opposed application for a child arrangements order, it must presume, unless the contrary is shown, that the involvement of each parent in the child’s life will further the child’s welfare, as long as that parent can be involved in a way that does not put the child at risk of suffering harm (s.1(2A), (4) and (6)). “Involvement” means involvement of some kind, direct or indirect, not any particular division of the child’s time (s.1(2B)). Cafcass’s safeguarding work is about the child’s welfare and safety, and the decision is the judge’s.
Cafcass says the telephone interview usually lasts 30 minutes. Your welcome letter gives the date and time, and you should get a text reminder on the day (Cafcass).
There is no script you are expected to follow. Cafcass asks about your child’s welfare and safety, and short notes of dates and concerns work better than a prepared speech.
Contact Cafcass using the details in your welcome letter as soon as possible. If the interview does not happen before the hearing, a Family Court Adviser at the first hearing will discuss any outstanding safeguarding issues with you.
Not on the safeguarding call unless they are parties: only people who are parties to the proceedings are interviewed at that stage. If the court later asks for a report, the Family Court Adviser may speak to other people.
No. There is no fixed age. The court considers a child’s wishes and feelings in the light of their age and understanding (s.1(3)(a)). See our guide on what age a child can choose which parent to live with.
In Wales the work is done by Cafcass Cymru. The court rules are the same, although all of Wales is now part of the Pathfinder pilot, so the process may differ.
The call usually lasts about 30 minutes, and what you say goes into the letter the judge reads before the first hearing. A worry you leave out, or a complaint that isn’t about your child’s safety, is hard to take back later. Book a free initial consultation with our child law specialists before the call.
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