Family law guide
Part of: Financial Settlement after Divorce
Without prejudice save as to costs means the offer in front of you is meant to stay out of the case, except at the very end, when the court decides who pays the legal bills. That is the theory. In a financial case on divorce or dissolution, the second half of it usually fails, because only an open offer to settle can be put before the judge at any stage (Family Procedure Rules 2010, r.28.3(8)). So a letter with those words at the top may commit you to far less, and protect the sender far less, than either of you assumes. Our financial settlement after divorce specialists assist and advise at every stage. This page covers the law of England and Wales only.
Reviewed by: Garry Steedman, Family Law Consultant (Divorce, Children & TOLATA), Kabir Family Law
It means the sender wants the offer treated as a private attempt to settle, so the judge deciding the money cannot read it. The “save as to costs” words then carve out one exception: the sender wants to be free to show that same offer to the judge afterwards, when the court turns to who pays the legal bills. Some letters shorten it to “without prejudice save to costs”, and a few say “WPSATC”. The words mean the same thing.
Here is why people bother. An offer of settlement without prejudice is a way of testing a compromise without weakening your position. You can put forward less than you say you are entitled to, and nobody can later tell the judge that you did. So the without prejudice save as to costs meaning that matters to you is a practical one: who is allowed to read this letter, and when? Send an offer without prejudice, and nobody who decides your case may read it.
The “save as to costs” part adds teeth. The idea is simple. If the other person turns down a fair offer, runs the case to a final hearing and then does no better, the sender can produce the letter. They can then ask the court to make that person pay for the extra months of argument. That is the whole point of the technique, and it still works in many civil disputes. However, it is exactly the part that the family rules switch off in most divorce money cases.
A Calderbank offer carries the words “without prejudice save as to costs”. The Ministry of Justice uses exactly that definition, describing such offers as known as Calderbank offers. So if a letter, an email or a schedule of proposals carries that line, you are looking at a Calderbank offer, whether or not anyone uses the word.
That matters for a practical reason. Family lawyers still use the name daily, and a reader who searches for one phrase and finds the other can easily think there are two separate things to worry about. There are not. There is one technique with two names, and one rule that decides whether it bites in your case.
Before you reply to anything, work out which of the three you have received. The wording at the top of the page decides who can read it, and when.
Anyone in the case can show it to the judge, at any point.
For negotiation only, and the trial judge never sees it.
The same protection, plus an attempt to reserve it for the costs argument.
One more point is easy to miss. If a without prejudice offer is accepted, the agreement it creates is open, because the two of you then need a court to approve the terms. A judge can make a financial order in the terms agreed, on the basis of the information filed with the application (Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, s.33A). Our guide to the financial consent order explains that step. Our guide to a sealed consent order then covers what happens next.
Because a single sentence in the family rules shuts the door. In financial remedy proceedings, “no offer to settle which is not an open offer to settle is admissible at any stage of the proceedings, except as provided by rule 9.17” (r.28.3(8)). Rule 9.17 is the financial dispute resolution appointment, and nothing else gets in.
The Practice Direction leaves no room for argument either. It says the court “will not be able to take into account any offers to settle expressed to be ‘without prejudice’ or ‘without prejudice save as to costs’ in deciding what, if any, costs orders to make” (PD28A, para 4.3). The Family Justice Council puts the same point in one line for judges: the rule “means that on the question of costs the court is no longer able to take into account … Calderbank offers” (FDR best practice guidance, para 47).
There is one place where the judge does read it. Every offer, including one made wholly or partly without prejudice, must be filed at least seven days before the settlement hearing (r.9.17(3) and (4)). That judge then has no further involvement in the case, and, at your request, the papers go back to you at the end rather than staying on the file. So one judge reads the offer once, and that judge will never decide your case.
The background rule still applies underneath all of this. Costs in the family court are in the discretion of the court (Senior Courts Act 1981, s.51), but in financial remedy cases the starting point is that the court will not order one of you to pay the other’s costs (r.28.3(5)). It moves off that point only because of conduct (r.28.3(6)).
Rule 28.3 does not cover every family money application, and where it does not apply the ordinary civil costs rules come back. The Practice Direction lists what falls outside it (PD28A, para 4.2). That list includes applications under Schedule 1 to the Children Act 1989. It also includes applications under section 27 or section 35 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, and under Part 1 of the Domestic Proceedings and Magistrates’ Courts Act 1978. Most interim financial applications sit outside it too.
In those cases, “the exercise of the court’s discretion as to costs is governed by the relevant provisions of the CPR and in particular rule 44.2” (PD28A, para 4.7). A well-judged offer can therefore still shift who pays. Our guide to Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 explains that route for unmarried parents.
The same is true outside family proceedings altogether. A dispute between an unmarried couple about a jointly owned home is a civil claim, so Part 36 of the Civil Procedure Rules applies instead. Miss a Part 36 offer and the court “must, unless it considers it unjust to do so”, order you to pay the other side’s costs from the date that offer expired (CPR r.36.17(3)). If that is your situation, read our guide to a TOLATA property claim first, because the costs risk there is a different animal.
On 27 May 2019 the rules changed. An update added one sentence to Practice Direction 28A. The court, it says, “will take a broad view of conduct for the purposes of this rule and will generally conclude that to refuse openly to negotiate reasonably and responsibly will amount to conduct in respect of which the court will consider making an order for costs” (PD28A, para 4.4). GOV.UK put the purpose plainly: a failure to negotiate openly and responsibly “will likely lead to an order for costs” (Family Procedure Rules practice directions, May 2019 update).
Read those two rules together and the strategy falls out on its own. Private letters no longer protect you at the end. Open proposals do, and the court sets deadlines for them.
Every financial case follows broadly the same sequence. The deadlines below come straight from the rules, and missing one is the most avoidable mistake on this page.
Notice what that sequence does to the old tactic. The document that decides costs is the one you were required to file openly, not the clever letter you sent in private six months earlier.
Pick the words that appear at the top of the letter, then tick what is already true. The list shows you what the label does and does not do, and where the gaps are before you answer.
There is no score. Anything you cannot tick yet is worth raising before you send a reply.
Those calls turn on the facts of your case, and they are far easier to get right before a deadline passes than afterwards.
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Most of the damage happens in the first fortnight after an offer lands, before anyone has taken advice. These are the patterns we see.
Our specialists assist and advise from the moment an offer arrives. They explain what the wording at the top of it actually achieves in your type of application, and what it does not. A specialist also talks you through how the figure sits against the section 25 factors, so you can weigh it rather than react to it. Then comes the timetable: when your open proposal is due, and what the settlement hearing is for. Our guide to Form G explains how that hearing can be brought forward. If the case is heading for a final hearing, we help you prepare for each stage.

A free initial consultation is a conversation with a specialist, who gives you initial advice on your circumstances. It does not include drafting or reviewing documents. Before the call, note the date the offer arrived, any deadline in it, and the rough value of the house, the pensions and the savings.
It means: keep this offer out of the case while the judge decides the money, but let me show it to the court at the end, when someone argues about legal bills. Courts usually respect the first half. The second half only works in proceedings that rule 28.3 does not cover, because in financial remedy cases no offer that is not open is admissible at any stage.
Not quite. A plain without prejudice offer is for negotiation only. A Calderbank offer adds the words “save as to costs”, which is an attempt to reserve it for the costs argument after the main decision. The Ministry of Justice treats the two labels as one and the same, so if you see either phrase on a letter, you are looking at the same technique.
Yes. Since 27 May 2019 the rules say the court will take a broad view of conduct and will generally conclude that a refusal to negotiate openly, reasonably and responsibly is conduct it will consider making a costs order about. The Family Justice Council’s guidance adds that a refusal to negotiate at the settlement hearing may result in an order for costs. Private letters do not shield you from that.
Yes, in a financial remedy case. If the settlement hearing does not resolve matters, each of you must file and serve an open proposal by the date the court directs, or within 21 days. Where no settlement hearing happens, it is 42 days before the final hearing. Then, not less than 14 days before that hearing, the applicant files an open statement of the orders sought, with the amounts, and the respondent answers within 7 days.
Be careful. The rule in r.28.3 is about money, and the protection exists for genuine attempts to settle a dispute, not for everyday messages. Labelling ordinary correspondence about arrangements for children does not make it disappear, and it can look evasive. If you are unsure whether a message is protected, ask before you send it rather than afterwards.
No. At the financial dispute resolution appointment, all offers are filed at least seven days beforehand, including those made wholly or partly without prejudice. That judge must have no further involvement with the application, apart from making a consent order or giving directions. At the end, the papers are handed back at your request rather than kept on the court file.
Often, yes. A dispute between an unmarried couple over a shared home is a civil claim, not a financial remedy application, so the Civil Procedure Rules apply. A Part 36 offer that is not beaten normally means the court must order costs from the date the offer expired, unless it considers that unjust. That is a real risk, and it is one of the main reasons to take advice early in a property case.
Diary the date, and do not answer on the same day. Check what the offer actually covers: capital, the house, pensions, maintenance and any deadline for a response. Work out what your own open proposal will say, because that is the document the court will weigh. Then get initial advice before you reply, while every option is still open to you.
A settlement offer usually arrives with a date on it, and the reply you send shapes what happens next. Agreeing too quickly can lock in terms you cannot revisit, and saying nothing at all can be read as a refusal to negotiate. Book a free initial consultation, and one of our specialists will give you initial advice on your options.
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You can also return to our guide to financial settlement after divorce.
General information about the law in England and Wales, not advice on your circumstances.
People put a great deal of faith in the words at the top of a letter, and far too little in the dates further down. In a financial case the court weighs what you said openly, on time, in the document the rules required. So when an offer arrives, ask two questions before you ask anything else: what is my deadline, and what will my own open proposal say? Answer those, and the label on the other side’s letter matters much less than you feared.
Iblal Iqbal, Partner & Family Law Strategist
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