Family law guide
Part of: Going against a family court order
A penal notice is a warning on the front of a court order. It tells the person the order binds that if they disobey it, the court may find them in contempt and punish them with prison, a fine or the confiscation of their assets (Family Procedure Rules 2010, r.37.2). Perhaps someone has just handed you an order that carries one. Or perhaps the other person keeps ignoring an order, and you want the court to take it seriously. Either way, this guide explains what the warning means and where the real decisions lie. It sits alongside our guide to going against a family court order, and it covers the law of England and Wales.
The Family Procedure Rules describe it as a prominent notice on the front of an order. It warns the person named in the order that if they disobey it, the court may treat that as contempt and punish it by a fine, imprisonment, confiscation of assets or other punishment under the law. In practice, it usually appears as a boxed paragraph in capital letters at the top of the first page. It speaks to the person named in it, not to everyone in the case.
So what does it not do? It helps to be clear, because people often read far more into it than it says:
Its purpose is fairness. Prison is the most serious thing a family court can do to a parent or former partner. The law therefore wants the person bound by an order to know, plainly and in advance, what disobeying it could cost.

Whether you see this warning depends on what the order does. As a rule of thumb, the warning can back an order that tells someone to do, or not to do, a specific thing. An order that creates a status, or that orders a payment, works differently.
| Type of order | The warning it usually carries | Read more |
|---|---|---|
| Non-molestation and occupation orders | Usually drawn up with the notice on the front. Breaking a non-molestation order without reasonable excuse is also a crime (Family Law Act 1996, s.42A). | Non-molestation orders and occupation orders |
| Prohibited steps and other orders to do, or not do, a specific act | Can carry one if the court attaches it. The order needs to say exactly what, and for an act, by when. | Breaking a prohibited steps order |
| Undertakings, meaning formal promises to the court | Enforceable through contempt, like an order. The applicant has to confirm their belief that the person understood the promise (FPR r.37.4(2)(g)). | Ask us before you give or accept one |
| Child arrangements orders | A warning notice as standard. The stronger notice only if a party asks and the court agrees. | Form C79 and enforcement |
| Orders to pay money | Money orders have their own enforcement routes, so this warning is rarely the tool. | Enforcing financial orders |
| Parental responsibility orders | None. They give a parent a status, not an instruction to follow. | See the real case below |
The warning notice under section 11I is what lets the court make an enforcement order, such as unpaid work, and the court can only do that if the parent had received a copy of it, or learned its terms, before the breach (Children Act 1989, s.11K). An order made before 8 December 2008 may not carry a warning notice at all, and form C78 exists for that situation. Our guide to dealing with a breach of a child contact order walks through those enforcement steps.
Receiving an order that carries a penal notice is frightening, especially if you think the order is wrong. However, the warning does not change what you must do. It changes how seriously the court can treat a breach. These steps protect you:
If the order is a non-molestation order, breaking it without reasonable excuse is also a criminal offence. However, once conduct has led to a conviction, the court cannot also punish it as contempt, and the reverse applies too (Family Law Act 1996, s.42A(3) and (4)).
Whether something counts as a breach at all turns on the exact words of the order, what you knew at the time and what was realistically possible. That is a judgement, not a checklist. If you are unsure whether you are complying, or someone has accused you of breaking the order, a free initial consultation is the right place to test it before you reply.
If the court finds a breach proved, it may impose a period of imprisonment, known as an order of committal, a fine, confiscation of assets or another punishment the law allows. It can also suspend a committal order, so that it only takes effect if there is a further breach (FPR r.37.9). A term of imprisonment for contempt cannot exceed two years on any one occasion (Contempt of Court Act 1981, s.14(1) and (4B)).
The person accused also has real protections. The application must tell them that they have a reasonable time to prepare, that they may give evidence but do not have to, and that they may remain silent. It must also tell them that admitting the contempt and apologising is likely to reduce the seriousness of any punishment (FPR r.37.4(2)(l) to (q)).
Our guide to committal proceedings in the family court covers how a contempt application runs, step by step. For one reported example of where persistent refusal can end, read about a father imprisoned for refusing to obey court orders. For the person accused, the key decision is often whether to admit, explain or dispute. That choice shapes everything that follows, so make it with advice rather than alone.
If the other person keeps breaking an order and it has no such warning, you can ask the court to attach one. This is not a form-filling exercise. The judge needs to see that the order is clear enough to enforce this way and that a warning is justified.
The hard part is not the paperwork. Instead, it is judging whether your order is precise enough, whether a warning of prison will change behaviour or inflame it, and how the step will land with your child. Getting those calls wrong can cost months and end in a failed application. So test them first at a free initial consultation, where a specialist gives you initial advice on your own order.
One of our published case studies shows why the type of order matters before anyone talks about prison. A father had not been married to the child’s mother at the time of the child’s birth, so he did not have parental responsibility. He had stayed involved in his child’s life and wanted a proper say in important decisions, but the mother did not agree to sign a parental responsibility agreement. The court made a parental responsibility order. It dealt with the child’s day-to-day arrangements separately, under section 8 of the Children Act 1989.
Those are two different kinds of order. Parental responsibility is a status: the rights, duties and authority a parent has (Children Act 1989, s.3(1)). It gives a parent a voice, but it tells nobody to do or stop doing anything. As a result, there is nothing in it for a penal notice to hold on to. The section 8 order is different, because it sets out what should happen and when. That is where the standard warning notice sits, and where a parent could ask the court to go further.
You can read the full story of an unmarried father applying for parental responsibility. Every case turns on its own evidence.
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Ignoring it does not make it go away. If you break the order it sits on, the other party can ask the court to find you in contempt. If the court is sure the breach happened, it can send you to prison, fine you or confiscate your assets, and it can suspend a prison term. Where you cannot comply, ask the court to change the order rather than simply stopping.
It warns the parent bound by the order that the court can treat breaking it as contempt of court, with prison or a fine as possible results. Every child arrangements order already carries a warning notice under section 11I of the Children Act 1989, which leads to enforcement orders such as unpaid work. The stronger warning is an extra step, and the court adds it only when a party asks and the judge agrees it is needed.
It is the order itself, with the warning on its front, that the other person must receive. The rules expect personal service, which means handing the document to the person, unless the court has dispensed with it. For many protective orders the court arranges service. Email, a text message or post may not be enough if you later want to enforce the order through contempt.
Yes, you can ask it to. You usually make the request by an application within the existing case. The judge will look at whether the order is clear and specific enough to enforce through contempt, and whether a warning is justified. It works forwards: breaches after the person receives the endorsed order are the ones that can found a contempt application.
Whether you have received an order carrying this warning or you need the other side to take an order seriously, the first steps decide how much control you keep. A free initial consultation is a conversation with a specialist, who gives you initial advice tailored to your circumstances. It does not include drafting or reviewing documents.
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For the wider picture, read our guide to going against a family court order.
The first thing I look at is not the box on the front of an order but the words inside it. A penal notice only has force if the paragraph behind it says clearly what must happen and when. Wording such as “reasonable contact” or “as agreed between the parties” gives a judge very little to enforce. If you are agreeing an order now, press for dates, times and handover arrangements in writing. If you already live under one, write down what each paragraph actually requires of you.
Iblal Iqbal, Partner & Family Law Strategist
General information about the law in England and Wales, not advice on your circumstances.
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