Family law guide
Part of: Recusal of a Judge
You can complain about a judge in the family court, but only about how the judge behaved, and only within three months. Rudeness, shouting, offensive language or a judgment left unwritten for months can go to the Judicial Conduct Investigations Office (JCIO). If magistrates heard your case, the complaint goes to a local advisory committee instead. A complaint cannot change the order, though. If what you need is a different decision, the route is an appeal, and that clock usually runs for only 21 days. This guide explains both routes in England and Wales, and how to tell which one you need.
If a hearing has left you feeling wronged, book a free initial consultation and one of our specialists will give you initial advice on which route fits, while there is still time to use it.
You can complain about personal behaviour that falls below the standards in the Guide to Judicial Conduct. The JCIO publishes two lists, one of things it can investigate and one of things it will turn away. The table below puts them side by side, in its own terms.
| It can investigate | It will reject |
|---|---|
| Loss of temper, rudeness or aggression, such as shouting | A judge saying they do not believe your evidence, or criticising what you did |
| Racist, sexist or otherwise offensive language | Bias in the way the judge reached a decision |
| Bullying or harassment of anyone in the case | Letting one side speak for longer than the other |
| Falling asleep in court | Refusing to hear a witness or admit a document |
| A judgment still outstanding more than three months after the hearing | An error of law or procedure |
| Misusing judicial status, or misusing social media | Not reading the papers before the hearing |
In short, the dividing line is between how the judge behaved and what the judge decided. Much of what feels most unfair in a family case sits on the right-hand side, because a judge preferring the other parent’s account is part of deciding. But that says nothing about whether you are right. It means the remedy lies in the court process instead of the complaints system.

Pick the answer closest to what happened. The result names the route that fits and shows how much time each clock has left. It also says what the check cannot decide for you. Nothing you choose leaves this page.
Two clocks start on the day of the hearing
The appeal clock runs out first
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Based on the JCIO’s published guidance, GOV.UK and Family Procedure Rules Part 30. The JCIO and the courts decide each case on its own facts.
The JCIO supports the Lord Chancellor and the Lady Chief Justice, who share responsibility for judicial discipline. It deals with misconduct complaints against salaried and fee-paid court judges, tribunal judges and members, and coroners. Complaints go through its online portal, and it takes five steps to get one right.
If the Lord Chancellor and the Lady Chief Justice find misconduct, the possible sanctions are formal advice, a formal warning, a reprimand or removal from office. The power to give advice, a warning or a reprimand comes from section 108(3) of the Constitutional Reform Act 2005. When they issue a sanction, the JCIO publishes a disciplinary statement. Until then, information about a disciplinary case that identifies a judge is confidential under section 139 of the same Act.
Magistrates also hear some family cases. However, the JCIO cannot respond to complaints about them or pass them on. Write instead to the advisory committee for the area your court is in, within three months, and ask the court staff which committee that is if you are unsure (JCIO, Magistrates complaints).
Court staff are a different matter again, because judges and magistrates do not work for HM Courts & Tribunals Service. HMCTS handles complaints about how its staff dealt with your case. It aims to reply within 10 working days, then a senior manager can review the reply, and after that its User Investigations Team can take a fresh look (HMCTS complaints procedure).
The Judicial Appointments and Conduct Ombudsman can look at how the JCIO or an advisory committee handled a complaint. Write within 28 days of the final decision, or sooner if you have waited more than six months for one (GOV.UK, Complain to the ombudsman). The ombudsman can recommend an apology or a change to the process. However, it cannot reopen your case or review the judge’s decision.
Most people who want to complain about a judge after a family hearing want something the complaints system cannot give. The JCIO lists what it cannot do. It cannot get you compensation or get involved in your case. It also cannot have a judge recused, tell a judge what to decide, or make a new decision. The only way to challenge a judge’s decision is through the courts.
Most appeals against an order of a district judge, a circuit judge, a recorder or magistrates need permission (FPR r.30.3). You can ask the judge for permission at the hearing where the decision was made, or ask the appeal court in your appellant’s notice. For a decision by magistrates, the request always goes to the appeal court. Either way, the court gives permission only where the appeal has a real prospect of success, or there is some other compelling reason to hear it.
Time is the hard part. The notice is due within 21 days of the decision unless the judge directed a different period, and within 7 days for a case management decision (r.30.4). Only the appeal court can extend that time limit (r.30.7). The appeal court allows an appeal where the decision was wrong, or unjust because of a serious procedural or other irregularity (r.30.12). Conduct that stopped you putting your case can fall into that second category. Our guide to grounds for appeal in the family court explains each ground. If your order is about where your children live or the time they spend with each parent, see how to appeal a child arrangements order.
You can also do both. A complaint and an appeal run separately, so nothing stops you raising the judge’s behaviour with the JCIO while you appeal the order. Because the clocks differ, deal with the appeal first: it has 21 days, while the complaint has three months.
It runs separately from your case and cannot change it. The JCIO says it cannot get involved in an ongoing case, and it cannot move your case to another judge. A live case does not pause the time limit either. The JCIO says an ongoing case will not usually be an exceptional reason to accept a late complaint, so waiting for the final hearing can cost you the complaint.
If you believe the judge cannot deal with the rest of your case fairly, you make that request to the judge in the case itself. Our guide to recusal of a judge covers when a judge should step aside and how to ask. For a hearing still to come, our guide to addressing a magistrate or judge helps you keep the exchange calm and on the record.
A mother contacted us nine days after a hearing about her children. She wanted to complain about the judge, who had cut her off twice and, she felt, sided with her former partner. Her notes showed two separate problems. The interruptions were sharp, but they were the judge managing the hearing. The bigger issue was that the order did not deal with written evidence she had filed. That is a question for an appeal, and twelve days of the appeal clock remained. We helped her set out the timeline and decide on the appeal first, instead of spending those days on a complaint. Every case turns on its own facts.
Write two notes on the evening of the hearing, while it is fresh. In the first, put the judge’s exact words and roughly when the judge said them. In the second, put what the order says that you think is wrong. The first note is your complaint, and the second is your appeal. Parents who keep them separate find it much easier to see which one matters, and the appeal note has the shorter deadline.
Hannah Overton, Complex Children Specialist & Client Support
Yes. GOV.UK says you must make your complaint within 3 months, and the JCIO counts from the matter you are complaining about. It extends that only in exceptional circumstances, and it says an ongoing case will not usually count as one.
No. The JCIO rejects complaints about a decision or order, bias in decision-making, and errors of law or procedure. If the decision is wrong, the route is an appeal, which needs permission and usually has to start within 21 days.
No. Its own guidance says it cannot get involved in your case, get a judge recused, tell a judge what to decide or get you compensation. Instead, you ask the judge hearing your case to step aside.
The JCIO aims to finish accepted complaints within 26 weeks. You should get an acknowledgement within two working days, a letter from a caseworker within 15 working days, and an update every four weeks after that.
You can ask the Judicial Appointments and Conduct Ombudsman to look at it, within 28 days of the final decision. The ombudsman reviews how the complaint was handled. It cannot reopen your case or review the judge’s decision.
Write to the advisory committee for the area your court is in, within three months. The JCIO cannot accept or redirect complaints about magistrates, and court staff can tell you which committee covers your court.
The thing that goes wrong most often is time. A parent spends the weeks after a hearing on a careful complaint that can only ever lead to advice or a warning for the judge. By the time they learn they could have appealed the order itself, the 21 days have gone.
A free initial consultation is a conversation with a specialist, who gives you initial advice tailored to your circumstances. It does not include drafting or reviewing documents. If you can, have the order and its date to hand, with your notes of what the judge said.
Book a free initial consultation or call 0330 094 5880.
You can also read our guides to your first family court hearing and to going to court as a litigant in person.
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